It’s a classic situation… all the signs they say to look for. New hair style, new underwear, more time away on business, taking a little more time on her appearance, lack of sex drive at home. I’m not sure, but I suspect my wife may be having an affair or, if not, would be open to one should the opportunity arrive.
Strangely, it doesn’t bother me. When we were in the zone, she was absolutely fabulous sexually. And insatiable. Shame for that to be wasted!! I never thought I’d say it, but I would be quite happy for her to be enjoying herself with another man. Is that strange?
I’d rather know about it. I’d even like her to tell me about it. (I’d love to watch, but that is highly unlikely!) I’d quite like to discover it… something she fails to hide or lets slip, but not tell her I know. A female friend of mine who is having an affair, says it has really turned her back on to sex, and so hubby benefits at home as well.
21% of UK women have affairs. The thrill of the illicit adds spice to their lives without destroying what they have at home. Maybe you should… read this… and don’t be one to miss out!
I wonder. Let me know your thoughts as a woman… on whether she is playing away and/or my being content with that if she is.
As a lover, I achieve my greatest arousal from sensing the pleasure of the woman I am with. Whether we are enjoying the most intimate, sensual moment or high with erotic charge, if she is immersed in her own pleasure, if what I am doing to her, or permitting her to do to me, takes her to sexual highs, then I become insatiable. I guess that is why my writing is primarily aimed at women… intelligent, discerning women. It reflects that balance and, hopefully, provides arousal and inspiration to all my readers when they are with their husbands, their lovers or, indeed, playing alone!
But that trigger to my own pleasure has started to lead me to places I had never expected to go. I am increasingly fantasising about my wife enjoying herself with another man. I want to see her hunger as she sucks on his cock. I want to see her passion as he fucks her hard. I want to hear her orgasms as he takes her over the top and fills her pussy with his cum. From a man who used to be a jealous lover, this is some evolution! I am actually happy for another man to enjoy her. I don’t necessarily even have to see. I would like to watch, be it in person or on film, but just to know she’s being fucked is arousing in itself.
Maybe, just maybe, having another man pleasuring her, having another cock deep inside her, would increase her desires with me as well! And I suspect that, if she didn’t realise I knew, if she thought she was having illicit sex, she would be even more excited by it.
Oh, but how to make it happen? I could write a thousand stories of such adventure, but cannot imagine having the courage to put it in to practice in real life! All ideas welcome.